Cyber Bullying.

[Ray]

I don't know how, but somebody who knew me got a hold of one of my accounts, and sent a slew of homophobic, religiously intolerant (I'm a Weak Agnostic, so that was a big wtf), and racist comments. I was really hurt, but then I realized it was just the internet, and I shouldn't even make a big deal out of it (unless it became serious off the internet). Still hurt, though.

[YamiYumes]

I'm not gonna fight you or anything, but I just thought you both would of found it funny if you thought i was in a car accident. I know i crossed the line and my friend and i took it too far, but we knew she knew it was a joke anyway. We've always played around. Yami and I used to mess with people all the time. It's over now though so yeah. I'm sorry about what I did. Thought it was funny at the time.

Right. Bloody fucking hysterical, you stupid bint. It's hilarious the thought of someone getting into a car accident when that's how my grandfather died. HILARIOUS. AMIRITE.

Seriously, get a fucking clue. If I'd wanted to hear from you in any sense of the word, I would have unblocked you. I didn't, nor do I need you sending your silly little friend off to send me messages saying you've died or something ridiculous in an attempt to make me laugh or even to get me to talk to you. And no, I had no way of knowing if it was a joke or not since I haven't spoken to you in months.

Right. Why don't you just come out and admit it was another of your pathetic attempts to get attention because you have a severe lack of it in your life? "Oh, I was almost raped because I'm a complete fucking idiot and meandered off alone with some guy I hardly know~!" or how you 'paid your way' into classes then bitch about being in over your head. Then mixing your own stories up to three different people and back pedaling when they call you out on it?

Yeah. Get a clue. I blocked you for a reason. Not that I wished ill harm on you, but you're an annoying fucking idiot who pines for attention.

[TheMedic]

Pardon? Your friend said nothing to me as you and her have been blocked on my MSN for many months now, so I don't get why you did because "we would both find it funny". As per the conversation log, it's quite obvious you only did it to get Yami to unblock you again, by trying to get her to worry about you. This had nothing to do with me, I only found out just now that you lied about being in a car accident. Yami only knew it was a joke because she is an intelligent woman and knew you better, from personal experience. If that was perhaps someone less clued up or weaker emotionally, they could have been badly affected by your "joke". Perhaps these people who called you "ugly" or degraded your opinions thought it was a "joke" as well. I don't know how anyone anywhere could find lying about being critically ill in hospital due to a car crash funny.

Well, I remember her laughing about someone she hated in highschool being dead, which I found kind of morbid, but thats why I thought she may of found it a bit funny.

I was pretty sure you would of found out sooner or later from someone about the "joke". I wouldn't of pulled that type of joke on a weaker minded person that would of believed me. We knew she wouldn't of believed us, thats why we did it.

Again, its over now. I've apologized and I didn't want her to unblock me, if i would of wanted her to unblock me I would of called her or texted her. Or even email her asking to work things out which I never did.

Thats the last thing I would do if i wanted her to unblock me lol

[Alexia_Ashford]

I'm not gonna fight you or anything, but I just thought you both would of found it funny if you thought i was in a car accident. I know i crossed the line and my friend and i took it too far, but we knew she knew it was a joke anyway. We've always played around. Yami and I used to mess with people all the time. It's over now though so yeah. I'm sorry about what I did. Thought it was funny at the time.

Pardon? Your friend said nothing to me as you and her have been blocked on my MSN for many months now, so I don't get why you did because "we would both find it funny". As per the conversation log, it's quite obvious you only did it to get Yami to unblock you again, by trying to get her to worry about you. This had nothing to do with me, I only found out just now that you lied about being in a car accident. Yami only knew it was a joke because she is an intelligent woman and knew you better, from personal experience. If that was perhaps someone less clued up or weaker emotionally, they could have been badly affected by your "joke". Perhaps these people who called you "ugly" or degraded your opinions thought it was a "joke" as well. I don't know how anyone anywhere could find lying about being critically ill in hospital due to a car crash funny. I find it quite funny actually that these people you made the topic about IS you. People who find it funny to mess with other peoples emotions over the internet, but it's "just a joke" so it doesn't really matter.

[TheMedic]

So you like to lie to people about being in car wrecks? Wow. How does it feel that you just lost respect from people from different countries?

I honestly don't care anymore. I'm just about done with forums. I've been coming to THIA for news and news only lately anyway.

[nemesiswontdie]

Retarded bullshit

So you like to lie to people about being in car wrecks? Wow. How does it feel that you just lost respect from people from different countries?

[TheMedic]

Not to get involved or anything, but.. Whatever your reason, do you really think it's fair to lie to anyone about being involved in a car crash? What about people who really DO get involved in accidents like that and never make it out? There's a line that you don't cross when it comes to making stuff up.

I'm not gonna fight you or anything, but I just thought you both would of found it funny if you thought i was in a car accident. I know i crossed the line and my friend and i took it too far, but we knew she knew it was a joke anyway. We've always played around. Yami and I used to mess with people all the time. It's over now though so yeah. I'm sorry about what I did. Thought it was funny at the time.

[Zombie Fred]

The Internet is serious business. People who actually get emotionally involved, or try to wag their egos about to be internet kings/warriors is pretty much, in my opinion is both sad and amusing at the same time. Some people just need to relax.

[YamiYumes]

lol I thought you'd get a kick out of it which you obviously did or else it wouldn't be posted on here. We did that because we knew you could give a crap about me so we thought you would "LOL" or something. Which I know you did.

Oh, right. Uh huh. Because me blocking you really means I want to hear from you. It was posted here to show how much of a hypocrite you are, hardly from my own amusement. It more irritated and pissed me off than anything.

It's also not saying much for people who have died in car crashes. You know, like people's family members.

[Karui]

I know someone who lied about having cancer...no one really believed her anyway and just laughed at her...she was a drama queen to begin with.

[Alexia_Ashford]

lol I thought you'd get a kick out of it which you obviously did or else it wouldn't be posted on here. We did that because we knew you could give a crap about me so we thought you would "LOL" or something. Which I know you did.

Not to get involved or anything, but.. Whatever your reason, do you really think it's fair to lie to anyone about being involved in a car crash? What about people who really DO get involved in accidents like that and never make it out? There's a line that you don't cross when it comes to making stuff up.

If you think that is acceptable behaviour, then all of your opinions on "cyber bullying" must be farce and hypocritical because that's exactly what you did there, by lying about being critically ill in a car accident. Not to mention quite sick.

[TheMedic]

Speaking of. I got a rather interesting message the other day in an attempt to upset me. It was rather lulzy, I must say, in context of this thread and all...


Jen: i just wanted to let you knw that taylor got into a serious car accident and doctors say that she might not make it and she keeps asking about you.
Endrance: Right and that's why she's online
Endrance: Nice try.
Jen: i don't see her online?
Endrance: Just asked a friend of mine that has her on his list
Endrance: She's on
Endrance: So again, I say nice try.
Endrance: And this is exactly the reason I blocked her.
Jen: like i said i don't see her online, but i am talking to her mom atm
Endrance: She didn't have her license, last I remember either.
Jen: she got it in novemeber
Endrance: I don't see why she would be asking for me anyways.
Jen: because she misses you and doesn't understand why you wouldn't talk to her anymore and feels bad
Endrance: When did this happen, then.
Jen: 2 days ago
Endrance: how old is she?
Jen: she will be 20 this year
Endrance: I apologize if I'm rather suspicious.
Endrance: But seriously.
Jen: Taylor says: (9:54:49 PM)
well i thought i would be a good friend and at least tell you bc she was begging me to tell you she missed you
Endrance: So she is online
Endrance: lol
Jen: lol i told you she misses talking to you bitch!!!
Jen: after all well you know taylor is a sick fuck!*
Endrance: lolwat
Jen: yeah
Jen: she misses ya
Endrance: but she wasn't in a car accident
Endrance: and was telling you to say that
Endrance: so i would unblock her
Endrance: lol
Jen: she wasn't expecting you to unblock her
Jen: but she doesn't really care
Endrance: lmao
Endrance: but wanted you to send that
Endrance: and claim she was in an accident
Jen: no she was
Jen: it just wasn't as serious


Nice try, but no dice. Also, calling someone a bitch when they call you out on your fail at trolling/bullying/whatever you want to call it? Priceless.

lol I thought you'd get a kick out of it which you obviously did or else it wouldn't be posted on here. We did that because we knew you could give a crap about me so we thought you would "LOL" or something. Which I know you did.

[The Dude]

From experience, 99% of people on the Web are prats anyway, trying to big themselves up by being cynical/snide/trolling on others. Or generally trying to misrepresent themselves to live as some kind of sad internet alter ego where they desperately try to seem cool or relevant to whatever forum/site they're trying to infect.

Used the net since '96 and have probably only met 5-6 genuine people who I still keep in contact with.

Had a few incidents of cyber stalking, where i've seen people go so far as to follow other friends to try and get information about me, or even going so far as to have people hack emails or into my paypal to remove funds from my bank account despite me never divulging such information *£500 was removed 2 years ago in one such incident despite having a 20 digit password, got it resolved legally though.*

[YamiYumes]

I've been involved in such situations before when friends pretend to be dead or, you know... in a car crash in hospital or something.

Speaking of. I got a rather interesting message the other day in an attempt to upset me. It was rather lulzy, I must say, in context of this thread and all...


Jen: i just wanted to let you knw that taylor got into a serious car accident and doctors say that she might not make it and she keeps asking about you.
Endrance: Right and that's why she's online
Endrance: Nice try.
Jen: i don't see her online?
Endrance: Just asked a friend of mine that has her on his list
Endrance: She's on
Endrance: So again, I say nice try.
Endrance: And this is exactly the reason I blocked her.
Jen: like i said i don't see her online, but i am talking to her mom atm
Endrance: She didn't have her license, last I remember either.
Jen: she got it in novemeber
Endrance: I don't see why she would be asking for me anyways.
Jen: because she misses you and doesn't understand why you wouldn't talk to her anymore and feels bad
Endrance: When did this happen, then.
Jen: 2 days ago
Endrance: how old is she?
Jen: she will be 20 this year
Endrance: I apologize if I'm rather suspicious.
Endrance: But seriously.
Jen: Taylor says: (9:54:49 PM)
well i thought i would be a good friend and at least tell you bc she was begging me to tell you she missed you
Endrance: So she is online
Endrance: lol
Jen: lol i told you she misses talking to you bitch!!!
Jen: after all well you know taylor is a sick fuck!*
Endrance: lolwat
Jen: yeah
Jen: she misses ya
Endrance: but she wasn't in a car accident
Endrance: and was telling you to say that
Endrance: so i would unblock her
Endrance: lol
Jen: she wasn't expecting you to unblock her
Jen: but she doesn't really care
Endrance: lmao
Endrance: but wanted you to send that
Endrance: and claim she was in an accident
Jen: no she was
Jen: it just wasn't as serious


Nice try, but no dice. Also, calling someone a bitch when they call you out on your fail at trolling/bullying/whatever you want to call it? Priceless.

[nemesiswontdie]

I agree with this. It's the net, who cares? Sure, it's easy to get involved with these things when you're young, but sometimes you have to learn life lessons the hard way. I don't really get "cyber bullying" because you can get all sorts of a-holes on the net, it's to be expected, you just have to stand up for yourself and not get too involved.

Why let something someone on the net says have any impact on you, unless they're a friend you know personally? I'd never let someone on the internet "convince me" of anything about myself, I'm self assured of who I am anyway. If someone you've never met can convince you your life isn't worth living, then maybe the solution can be found by looking inward instead of the fact it's on the internet.

I can understand with kids who aren't well-versed with the internet can sometimes get a bit too involved with it and have to learn things the hard way, or, like in real life, learn to stand up for themselves. However, I find it hard to have sympathy for grown adults who should be older and wiser than let some dicks on the internet have any sort of impact on their emotional well-being.

I couldn't have said it better myself.