What do you prefer Marriage through love, or traditional ??

[rewak]

Love for sure

[Guest]

I think Brazil its starting to allow it,but nevermind for me

[Spera01]

Marriage through love all the way.

[Town of Green]

Love. I think it's wrong if you take away a person's ability to choose.

[Member_of_STARS]

Its quite obvious that idealisticall, you should only marry for love. And while I am against arranged marriages, theres plenty of other reasons why a man and a woman (or whatever) sign a contract which guarantees them a divorce and a miserable life.

I assume the stats are similar throughout the world. Nearly half the marriages end up in a divorce in less than 5 years? Its an obvious sign that people either are not ready or are marrying for the wrong reasons, which usually is- voila!, trying to patch up or fix a relationship. Making kids is the next step. Not saying all are like this, but vast majority definitely is.

Just move in togethrt, no contracts, no obligations. And Im saying this while I know that a wedding is one of the biggest dreams of most girls...

[adamb1029]

love.
defintly love,i dont want to be with someone who hates me/i hate

[Annella]

Love for me.

[Biohazard EX]

I think Marriage through love is better, but I also think waiting a long time before getting married is not that ideal. I find that if you've been with someone for like, a year, I think it's enough to get married. Otherwise, you're with them for a long time, you start overthinking about Marriage, and you start looking for flaws in the other person.
But I'm not married nor ever been engaged, so what the hell do I know?

[The Dude]

i dont want to be with someone who hates me/i hate

Don't get married then

[Biohazard EX]

Bah-ZING!

[Vector]

All my uncles always told me as a child to never get married...so I'll just spread my seed all my life and never get tied down.

[Biohazard EX]

My uncle tells me a lot of things. But it'll be a cold day in hell, before I listen to his nagging ass.

[Bertha]

Being a woman I'd have to say love...for the simple fact that not too long ago the choice would not have been mine to make. And yes...traditional marriages are very much still around in parts of the world today. A professor at my college is from India, and she had an arranged marriage. She said that it was one of the best things to ever happen to her because she felt drawn to the man her parents had chosen for her. They 'dated' for a short period of time to become more familiar with each other, and according to her she felt that he was meant by fate to be her life partner.

[wizard]

Through love, for sure!

[Helegad]

My uncle tells me a lot of things. But it'll be a cold day in hell, before I listen to his nagging ass.

"It'll be a cold day in hell when I let a NARC cop stop me. Ms. Sax, do your job."