I'm Angry

[Mr. Spencer]

All I have to say to rape apologists is - Dead or alive you're coming with me.

[Alexia_Ashford]

It can be annoying in person when this sort of thing happens, but men are generally more sexually driven creatures than women. Even lesbians can be like it in gay clubs. On the internet, I wouldn't let it bother me. Anyone on the internet needs thick skin, imo. I know it's celebrating a character you love, but a lot of men wouldn't really know, or care, who Jill Valentine is. It's just "mini skirt" and "boob tube". I don't know whether I'm more desensitized than most but I don't let it bother me.

[Inferno04]

On the internet, I wouldn't let it bother me. Anyone on the internet needs thick skin, imo. I know it's celebrating a character you love, but a lot of men wouldn't really know, or care, who Jill Valentine is. It's just "mini skirt" and "boob tube". I don't know whether I'm more desensitized than most but I don't let it bother me.

This, this, just all of this. <33

[Wrathborne]

All I have to say to rape apologists is - Dead or alive you're coming with me.

Actually the novel and Movie 'Deliverance' were made to prove that men could be raped too. apparently there was a time when it was only thought that women could be raped and that if they were raped, they were asking for it. this film changed all that.

I still think the film is a bizarre trip to turdsville, but if it had a purpose to enlighten, then I cant fault it as harshly.

[Alexia_Ashford]

How can men be raped? Obviously they can be raped through the rear entrance by other men (or a woman if she was so inclined), but how can they be raped by penetration? Surely it needs to be "up" before it can go in.

[Darkmoon]

Unfortunately, most social norms don't apply thanks to the internet not having repercussions for such crap. And having a large percentage of horny teenagers on it.

[Inferno04]

How can men be raped? Obviously they can be raped through the rear entrance by other men (or a woman if she was so inclined), but how can they be raped by penetration? Surely it needs to be "up" before it can go in.

Body saying 'yes' and being aroused but the mind saying 'no', I suppose. I've heard of women having involuntary orgasms during rape before, then feeling guilty for it after. Same principle.

[Darkmoon]

How can men be raped? Obviously they can be raped through the rear entrance by other men (or a woman if she was so inclined), but how can they be raped by penetration? Surely it needs to be "up" before it can go in.

It is possible to force a gentleman to have an erection and take advantage of it. It doesn't cause as much physical harm as it does to a woman, but it has all the emotional issues that come from being raped.

[Alexia_Ashford]

Really? Isn't it possible to stop it though? Like, I dunno, thinking of Susan Boyle or something really gross. I didn't know it was possible to force an erection without some sort of aid like viagra. Then again, I've never tried.

[Wrathborne]

How can men be raped? Obviously they can be raped through the rear entrance by other men (or a woman if she was so inclined), but how can they be raped by penetration? Surely it needs to be "up" before it can go in.

*blinks* um...Are you being sarcastic? I'm genuinely confused here...could just be the insomnia doing the thinking for me right now though.

[Alexia_Ashford]

No. Women have a hole to put something in, they don't need any preparation for sex, which makes them easier to rape. Men need an erection which is something that happens when he is sexually aroused. I have never tried to force a man to have an erection, so I didn't think it would be possible to MAKE him have a hard on without drugging him.

[Wrathborne]

No. Women have a hole to put something in, they don't need any preparation for sex, which makes them easier to rape. Men need an erection which is something that happens when he is sexually aroused. I have never tried to force a man to have an erection, so I didn't think it would be possible to MAKE him have a hard on without drugging him.

Ahhhh...I see what you mean.

[Darkmoon]

Once you're up and being stimulated, it's going to be difficult. Your body is programmed to respond a certain way to such stimulation. And if you do manage to go down in this kinda situation the lady doing such things will likely just get you up again.

[oskar-det]

Alas, I am taken. But you aren't the first ohave a crush on me. You should see the bunches of flowers I get from Dot50Cal.



Woman should be allowed to wear what they want. I see dudes wandering around in nothing but swim trunks when it's hot without a barrage of bullshit from people, but if a woman wears a bikini or even a one piece she's gonna get all sorts of suggestive crap yelled at her.

Not at all cool.



There's a bit of a difference between an SS uniform and all the history of evil that has and a woman wearing he clothes she finds comfortable, finds she enjoys the look or feels good in. You can't fault a woman for wanting the same thing a guy has, and guys can get away with a lot when it comes to this.

There is a line, sure. A guy shouldn't run through the streets in fishnets wand a blanket. I have seen it happen, but it shouldn't. And even the most free woman is going to admit that a thong and bra is likely to get the wrong response in public. But beyond that? It's the woman's choice.

Honestly? Some of these comments are kinda scary, and bordering on the shit on TV. You know the sort of thing I'm talking. 'Oh, it was horrible she was raped. But she shouldn't have been wearing those clothes. She shouldn't have had a drink from someone she didn't know that well. She shouldn't have been in that club. She shouldn't have been outside without a squad of twenty eunuchs, trained from birth to protect her.' Bollocks. The man should have had enough self control to act like a human being. Everything else is just trying to wiggle out of him acting like a asshole.

It's a difference but it's the same reason. You send clear signals depending on what you're wearing. The problem with some women is that they both want to keep the cake and eating it at the same time. They want to feel sexy and be appreciated for it BUT only by the (for them) "right" people.

I don't blame a woman for being raped, but she also has some responsibility. You can't walk around naked in town and say "oh yeah I can wear whatever I want, don't touch me". It just doesn't work that way.

Men should be able to control themselves, but the more sexy signals the woman send, the bigger chance is that someone will lose control and grab her butt or something. I think it's extremely unfair to blame 100 % of this on men.

[Darkmoon]

...of course it's not unfair to blame the men 100%. Let's be honest here - if a woman's walking around naked, you should be calling the loony bin, not dragging her off to have some 'fun'. If she's in sexy clothes you can look. But you don't leer, don't yell, and don't touch. There's no real question here. A man who rapes a woman is 100% at fault 100% of the time, with the only exception being mental illness. There is NO other possible excuse, at all, ever.