I know everyone is different Mark, but that could be said for anyone. It's like how a lot of black folk can say "'Sup nigga?" and it's deemed alright, but if a white person said "Hello nigger", there would be some raised eyebrows. I don't generally get offended at much, and I know transvestites who refer to themselves as "trannies". But there are a number of different "trannies" and transvestites differ to transgendered people, and so on. A lot of transgendered people find "tranny" offensive because it's not referring to them for who they really are. It was also the assumption that he looked like a "gay bald dude" and this was somehow a bad thing, and using "gay" as an insult. Within certain social circles it's accepted from people who are known as LGBT alllies, but the majority of my gay/trans friends (and I know a hell of a lot), would be insulted if some random said "You look so gay" and then went off insulting people's behaviour calling it "gay".
I wasn't so much offended at the initial post, I was just informing him not to use gay as an insult. It was the second post where the dude seemed to believe it his right to use the word 'gay' to insult folk and that such matters of LGBT rights shouldn't concern anyone because we should just "be a man" about stuff. Even then I wasn't offended, more flabbergasted that someone could have such an opinion. But, meh, whatever. It's getting off topic now anyway. (Not that this topic really HAS a topic to begin with)
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Originally posted by Alexia_Ashford View PostBollocks. Caring about discrimination isn't exclusive to women and saying that "being a man" is not caring about society, the issues within society etc is likening the male gender to a bunch of neanderthals. Which they aren't. You don't have to be talking about homosexuality to use the word "gay" in a derogatory fashion. Just like you don't have to be talking about black people specifically for people to find the word "nigger" offensive. Saying "That is so gay" talking in a negative context is an insinuation that 'gay' is bad, and perpetuates the idea that it is 'okay' for people to slag off gay people. Just like when people use the word "tranny" and "shemale" (just like Julie Birchill's lovely article in the Guardian), they tell society it is alright to be transphobic.
I 'get' what you're saying, but it doesn't apply to every LBGT person. For example, some would prefer to be identified as gay/gender-queer/whatever, but will say such things as, "That's so gay", or "Look at the tranny".
It's not offensive, to everyone. ;P ...but people are different from one another, I know that it can be hurtful, etc., but obviously, it's offensive, in this case.
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Of course, because "bollocks" is comparable to the worldwide struggle for equality for all people LGBT and the hardships/discrimination they face. I had no idea men's genitalia also faced such a fight for basic civil rights. I'd forgotten what insightful, clever people browse the forum. My mistake. Thank you for enlightening me on this issue.Last edited by Alexia_Ashford; 01-23-2013, 01:02 PM.
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Originally posted by Alexia_Ashford View PostBollocks. Caring about discrimination isn't exclusive to women and saying that "being a man" is not caring about society, the issues within society etc is likening the male gender to a bunch of neanderthals. Which they aren't. You don't have to be talking about homosexuality to use the word "gay" in a derogatory fashion. Just like you don't have to be talking about black people specifically for people to find the word "nigger" offensive. Saying "That is so gay" talking in a negative context is an insinuation that 'gay' is bad, and perpetuates the idea that it is 'okay' for people to slag off gay people. Just like when people use the word "tranny" and "shemale" (just like Julie Birchill's lovely article in the Guardian), they tell society it is alright to be transphobic.
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That's what happens when you don't verify someone or give them even a basic background check before giving them shit.
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Bollocks. Caring about discrimination isn't exclusive to women and saying that "being a man" is not caring about society, the issues within society etc is likening the male gender to a bunch of neanderthals. Which they aren't. You don't have to be talking about homosexuality to use the word "gay" in a derogatory fashion. Just like you don't have to be talking about black people specifically for people to find the word "nigger" offensive. Saying "That is so gay" talking in a negative context is an insinuation that 'gay' is bad, and perpetuates the idea that it is 'okay' for people to slag off gay people. Just like when people use the word "tranny" and "shemale" (just like Julie Birchill's lovely article in the Guardian), they tell society it is alright to be transphobic.
Check point five.
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Slang: Often Disparaging and Offensive . awkward, stupid, or bad; lame: This game is really gay.Last edited by Alexia_Ashford; 01-23-2013, 11:00 AM.
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Gay, just like countless other words in the English language, has multiple meanings, it only means homosexual if the content of the sentence has any reference to the person/object's sexuality. The post, a few posts ago, wasn't talking about sex in anyway, so it's not about homosexuality. This oversenstitivity to words is making us weaker as a species, we cry about every little thing that is said. Whatever happened to being man (see what happens when we allow ourselves to be feminized? We lose our manhood by acting like females, it's not male nature to care about crap about things like the word Gay, yet we have been programmed by schools and our over-feminized society to behave socially like women instead of men and we cave in and accept it. Hence, weaker as a species.) lol Rant over
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...You traded your betas to get 1.5 a week or two before it's released by the "team"?
Seriously?
I think you deserve it, considering there's been numerous reports of GMAN being a scammer and being impatient.
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Would prefer if you didn't use "gay" as a defamatory comment ie. "gay looking bald pic" and "pulling gay crap on me" though.
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We didn't you make this topic on ASSEMBLER? He's trying to keep a reputation there.
Here we already know he's a dick, so it won't change much...Last edited by Rick Hunter; 01-23-2013, 06:10 AM.
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There are...stories...that he's scammed several people.
Let me put it to everyone this way. I have a very good idea of how he came by his information. It was not his own, personal copy of 1.5. Do not trade anything with the guy until you have utter and undeniable proof...preferably a physical meeting where you can sample the goods.
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It's nice for the heads up and all, but don't you think after what Robert_Kendo posted and the fact that GManWillis had no proof to show for 1.5 anyway, and the fact he had caused drama over the whole 1.5 debacle on Assembler AND the fact he scammed you out of a KV ring bells in your head that says stay away? It's like when he went on about having the 80% and 100%... did you really believe any of that? No offence, but it was clear here that he couldn't be trusted... Even I think it was Zombie_X said he scammed him with a PSX Development Console or w.e.
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yes very true hes nothing but a rat basterd.
lol warthborne THANK YOU for that pic its perfect. lol
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File size of the RAR is apparently 565 mb. Sounds too big for an early proto to me.
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Gotta watch out for those gay looking bald dudes, they're trouble.
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